I just read the blog Out of Control – Way of the Will, part 2. I'm wondering if any of you have overcome the effects of not having been trained this way when you were a child and then were able to come along side your children to train them. The more I read CM's writings, the more painfully aware I become of my faulty character and then I feel completely unequipped to help the children. 
It's overwhelming and feels like I'm constantly trying to "catch up" myself, at the same time trying to keep them moving forward. Does that even make sense?
Out of Control-The Way of the Will Part 2
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mj
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Yes I understand!
I had made it my goal this summer to work on my own "will" and habit training. So that I could be better equipped when working with my boys on their "will" and habit trainings!! I am admittedly lazy when it comes to housework and exercise. Being on target with some other areas that I need to be on. I know it's my lazy "will" and lack of habit. These are areas that desperately need work. I need to be able to set the right example for my boys, especially when trying to train them.
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mj
MemberI guess we should work on one habit at a time. I get caught up in trying to make up for years of poor habits and get overwhelmed which leads to the thought "It's too late, why try...." and I also have a tendency to look at what's lacking instead of what progress I've made.
I've also come to the realization that I don't want a weak will to be a stumbling block in my children's lives, the way it has been in my own, so that thought should keep me inspired to keep moving forward no matter how small the progress seems to be.
Best of wishes to you on your goals of housework and exercise habits!!
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heatherma
MemberAhh the Will. Now not to brag but to encourage and say look what God has done!: I used to always give up on something when it got too hard (crafts, projects, friendships, you name it). My poor parents were always frustrated with me but did not know Love and Logic like they do now:) Anyway, I decided shortly before I was married to make a quilt. I had a history of big plans, no follow-thru, unless someone said it was too hard or couldn't be done. Well watch me, I would think. So proud. sigh. So I actually finished a king size quilt and hand quilted it for my wedding at 19. That was the beginning of seeing I had a problem and overcoming it a little. Since then, I have firmly decided and fervently prayed that I would set a good example for our kids in not giving up, working hard, doing your best, etc. (and the quilting thing? I love it, and have actually finished many things for others). I started violin lessons almost 2 yrs ago and it is so humbling but rewarding. It's something I always wanted to do but parents could not afford and dh said I had to stick with at least a year. Now to maintain this habit of persistence and work on others (patience, rising early, are next I think). God bless you on your journey.
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